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The Cotter Model |
The Cotter Model
The Cotter Model blends the intervention into the entire
treatment process. It is not treated as an isolated event. As a
recovering alcoholic, Cotter is able to conduct his private,
one-on-one intervention meeting with the identified person (IP)
with an open dialogue between two people discussing a problem
and how to solve it together, as a team.
This is in stark contrast to the group, surprise party
intervention. Group interventions can deteriorate into a threat
and demand filled confrontation sermon, by a group of people who
are determined to bully the IP into surrendering to their
perception of “help.”
When a person has reached the point where an intervention is
necessary, they are a veritable buffet of negative emotions.
They are already embarrassed, guilt-ridden, paranoid, confused,
and angry. In addition, they are usually suffering from low
self-esteem, if not self-loathing. To have a group of their best
friends and close relatives, often accompanied by their cleric,
surprise them and detail their dreadful behavior, is less than
conducive to a positive result. The IP may very well accept this
onslaught and go passively into a treatment center. But their
road to recovery begins with negative motivations. This
positions treatment and recovery as penance, when in fact, it
should be a positive journey.
Specifically, patients entering treatment following such a
confrontation may be so angry, it might be several days or weeks
before the counselors “break through” the anger and begin the
education necessary to address recovery. In some cases the anger
lasts for years. Too often, the IP will leave treatment before
completion and once home, will continue to drink as before. Now,
the people who tried to help by investing considerable emotion,
time, and money, are angry and disappointed. This makes the next
offer of help, if there is one, even less likely to succeed.
The Cotter Model is designed to offer an adult, with alcohol,
medication, or other drug issues a comfortable and secure
environment in which to discuss their problem. They are
encouraged to talk openly and honestly about their feelings. In
this setting, they reveal their fears and concerns as well as
their hopes and dreams. This presents the opportunity to explain
the valuable benefits of addressing their problem. Once the
process of treatment is explained and any reluctance it dealt
with, they will begin to see to expediency of living their life
free of alcohol or (prescription) drug dependency. This
positive, compassionate method greatly enhances the prognosis
for long term recovery. In a sense, the idea of getting help for
their problem becomes their idea and one to embrace.
When combined with the Cotter Model’s year-long program of
Continuing Care, the stage is set for adults to learn to
appreciate a life free from alcohol or other drug addiction.
The goal of an alcohol intervention or a drug intervention
must be to motivate the impaired person to WANT help for their
addiction problem. Simply accepting help, by acquiescing to
threats and demands, may interrupt their drinking or drug use,
but it probably will not get them well.
Over time you have, no doubt, yelled, cried, warned and
commanded, to no avail. Unfortunately, today most
"interventionists" initiate more failed efforts by perpetuating
similar confrontational dynamics. The Cotter Model, unlike the
group confrontation, is implemented with dignity and respect,
focused on the specific needs and qualities of the individual.
This private, confidential, one-on-one approach succeeds where
other attempts have failed.
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